# Who
are
my
friends

## Team composition
by
personality type

### Introduction

Here is my Compatibility Chart

We see sixteen humans from above.

When two humans are close, they can be friends. When two humans are distant, they should be "enemies".

When two humans are "enemies", they do not talk directly to each other, but they use common friends as translators. To create a dialog between two enemies, we need at least four people in total.

We see different groups of four people. Some groups are connected by square lines, other groups are connected by cross lines.

Does it work? - I dont know, but I want to find out.

In my book, I will describe

- how can we find a compatibility chart by random
- how did i find my compatibility chart by symmetry
- how can we validate different compatibility charts
- what are the dynamics of teamwork

### Four Basetypes

In my compatibility chart, personality type is encoded with the four numbers 1234. Translation to Carl Jung: 1234 = Ntuiting Sensing Feeling Thinking.

The four basetypes translate to four body shapes

These four basetypes are the result of my two-factor model of personality. I call these two factors "sense" and "move". Sense encodes the natural bias of the sensory nervous systems. Move encodes the natural bias of the motory nervous systems.

Basetype is the constant part of personality. The basetype is chosen before birth, and is stable for life.

The basetype is NOT related to birthday, as suggested by calendar-astrology. Veto argument: Calendar-astrology fails completely when the birthday is unknown.

#### The Strange Situation

How do we find the basetype? The basetype can be tested with one-year-old children. In psychology, this is known as The Strange Situation.

1. A child and its mother visit an unknown place.
2. We let the child play for some time.
3. An unknown mother joins the scene.
4. We let the child play for some time.
5. The mother quickly leaves the child, without saying bye.
6. When does the child start crying? Now or later?
7. We let the child cry for some time.
8. The mother returns.
9. When does the child stop crying? Now or later?

Here we see two decisions: start crying and stop crying. For each decision, we have two choices: now or later. The two decisions represent the two-factor model of personality.

- 13 = broad sense = start crying now
- 24 = long sense = start crying later. These children inhibit their own crying, and when their inhibition breaks, they start crying.
- 14 = long move = stop crying now
- 23 = broad move = stop crying later. These children are so "involved" in their crying, that they will act angry (3) or avoidant (2) when the mother returns.

The Strange Situation is part of Attachment Theory. The authors of Attachment Theory believe that the children's behavior is learned (nurture over nature, mind over matter), and they believe that type 1 (secure attachment = balanced attachment) is the ideal type, and all other types should be made (educated) more like type 1.

#### Nature or nurture?

Short answer: both. Long answer: 50 of 100 people naturally believe in a Natural Order (nature is stronger), and the other 50 of 100 people naturally believe in a Mader Order (education is stronger). We can call it a cruel joke, that "nature" creates humans, who seriously believe that humans are stronger than nature.

But for the "Made Order" humans, the other side (Natural Order) is equally ridiculous. They say, "you must be crazy to believe in destiny." In the justice system, we see this as the conflict between "legitimate" (inborn rights) and "legal" (earned rights). Morpheus: Do you believe in fate, Neo? Neo: No. Morpheus: Why not? Neo: Because I don't like the idea, that I'm not in control of my life.

This is a universal pattern: What is serious to some people, is a joke to other people. This is why we associate "humor" with joking and laughing, but originally, Humorism was Personality Psychology. And it still works today. To test someone's personality type, observe where he draws the line between "serious" and "funny".

TODO self assessment can be wrong ("youre mistyped")

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TODO more graphics

#### Four Basetypes: Translations

Basetype Number | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4
Simple Name | Leader | Follower | Activist | Pacifist
Body Shape | Heart | Pear | Broad | Long
Cylinder Geometry | Top | Bottom | Outside | Inside
Carl Jung | Ntuiting | Sensing | Feeling | Thinking
Attachment Style | Balanced | Disorganized | Coercive | Avoidant
Start Crying | Now | Later | Now | Later
Stop Crying | Now | Later | Later | Now
Parenting Style | Authorative | Neglectful | Permissive | Totalitarian
William Sheldon | mesomorph | mesomorph | endomorph | ectomorph
Flow Profile | Hard Charger | Flow Goer | Crowd Pleaser | Deep Thinker
David Keirsey | Artisan | Guardian | Idealist | Rational
Element | Fire | Earth | Air | Water
Business Chemistry | Driver | Guardian | Pioneer | Integrator
Robert Moore | Warrior | Lover | Magician | King
Tobias Beck | Shark | Whale | Dolphin | Owl
Hire Success | Director | Supporter | Socializer | Thinker
Carol Tuttle | Determined | Sensitive | Funny | Serious
Richard Bartle | Killer | Explorer | Socializer | Achiever
Anton LaVey | Satan | Belial | Lucifer | Leviathan
Simpsons | Marge | Homer | Bart | Lisa
South Park | Kenny | Stan | Cartman | Kyle
American Dad | Steve | Stan | Francine | Hayley
Harry Potter | Hogwarts | Hufflepuff | Ravenclaw | Slytherin

### Four Properties

Every basetype is the combination of two properties. Every property can be described as the "common ground" of two basetypes.

Translations to Hans Eysenck

- 13 = broad sense = extravert
- 24 = long sense = introvert
- 23 = broad move = neurotic
- 14 = long move = psychotic

13, 24, 23, 14: These are pairs of two basetypes. One and Three, Two and Four, Two and Three, One and Four. Short: One-Three, Two-Four, Two-Three, One-Four.

These are not just mental properties, but they also influence the body shape. sense = upper body, move = lower body.

This means

- 13 = broad sense = broad shoulders = young brain
- 24 = long sense = narrow shoulders = old brain
- 23 = broad move = broad hips = feminine brain
- 14 = narrow move = narrow hips = masculine brain

### Subtypes

Every basetype has three subtypes

- extraverted
- ambiverted
- introverted

The combination of basetype and subtype is called mixtype. Every mixtype can also be described as a mix of two basetypes. For example, here are the mixtypes of basetype 1

- 1 extraverted = 1x3
- 1 ambiverted = 1x1
- 1 introverted = 1x4

In total, we have twelve mixtypes. This is the reason why we have twelve hours on the clock, and twelve months in the year. You may also call this the "tree of life".

Compared to MBTI, I do not allow the mixing of opposite types. For example, 3x4 is not allowed. So basetype and subtype must be similar, not opposite.

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### Devil Child

Imagine you are a Socialist, but your child wants to be a Capitalist. What do you do? Hold On or Let Go?

Hold On to your devil child, and force it to become a socialist? "Children are always compatible with their parents." "What does not fit, is made to fit." "Parents who give away their child for adoption are bad parents." "All mental illness can be cured." "No child left behind." "Criminals are stupid, and should be educated." "Majority is right, individuals are sick."

Let Go of your devil child, and allow it to become a capitalist? "Friends are better than family." "Compatibility are better than loyalty." "One radical cut is better than a million small cuts." "Better a horrible end than endless horror." "Better no friends than fake friends." "Some people are born with criminal tendencies." "Smart kids should drop out of school." "Society is sick, individuals are right."

Hold On is the simple solution, that's why it's so popular. But how can the Let Go solution work in reality?

Let me add some context to my picture. We live in a village of 150 people. In total, there are 25 families. Each family has 2 grandparents, 2 parents, 2 children. So we have 50 children in our village. Let's say 50% of all children are "devil children".

To solve the devil child problem, we need the concept of Subjectivity. The "devilness" of the devil child is subjective. This means, the devil child appears as "evil" only to some people, but to other people, it appears as "good". Now, my goal is to move all devil kids from their biological parents to their "spiritual" parents.

School is doing something similar: School removes children away from their biological parents, and forces kids to be educated by teachers. Who are these teachers? Government licensed professionals. So these people are chosen based on "rational" criteria: most teachers are "normies" who have good experience with the government, so of course they spread government propaganda.

What's the problem with school? Only "rational" choice of teachers, no "emotional" choice of teachers. School is just another forced community, just like the biological parent-child relation. The kids are trapped in these relations, and if the kids are incompatible with their teachers, both sides suffer. Some kids are lucky: they are naturally compatible with their teachers. Other kids have bad luck: they are naturally incompatible with their teachers. For the lucky kids, school is heaven. For the unlucky kids, school is prison. Subjectivity: "Your paradise is our hell, and your hell is our paradise."

### Mental Geometry

Body shapes come in opposites: 1-2 = top-bottom. 3-4 = outside-inside. When we combine two opposite types, we get a double-cone, which has the long-section of a rhombus.

View from top/bottom: For 12, we see only one type. For 34, we see both types: 4 is the Inner Circle, 3 is the Outer Circle.

TODO figure: top/bottom view of the double-cone

TODO figure: 3D axis + circle = gyro, spinner, rotary. axis = 4, circle = 3. type 3 girls like to wear "hoop" earrings, matching their round face

TODO four "chakras"? 3142 = head bust belly ass = outside top inside bottom

### Four Crosses: Body and Mind

I assume that a certain Personality Basetype must appear in a certain Body, so I can perceive it as friendly = so it is compatible to my Personality Basetype.

I'm a "type 1 father" (M1L = D1), so I see as naturally attractive all "type 3 mother" (F3L = B3), all "type 4 son" (M4S = A4), all "type 2 daughter" (F2S = C2).

In total, there are four different combinations of body and mind. I call these the Four Crosses

So for every property, we have two definitions. For example, "what is masculine?" (abstract) or "who is masculine?" (concrete) For some people, masculine is 14. For other people, masculine is 23. In every "Cross", the four people share the same definitions of masculine/feminine and young/old. With this common ground, the four people are compatible.

### What goes up, must come down

Population is a hot topic. The upper class want to control the population, the lower class wants to overgrow the upper class. It's the conflict between Quality and Quantity, between Long and Broad.

Why "control the population"? Just look at this graph

We know this growth pattern from cancer or bacteria, which grow and grow, until all resources are burned out, until the host dies. Humans have defeated all systems of self-regulation, for example by criminalizing serial murder (thou shalt not kill), so we grow and grow, until we kill the whole planet, including most animals and plants.

So, why "control the population"? Kill humans, save planet. Kill majority, save minority. Two solutions: 1. Do nothing, keep growing until ecosystem collapse, then all humans die within the next 100 years. 2. Kill 90 Percent of today's population to get down to 100 Million people, so that humans can survive another 10000 years. Some call this a "moral dilemma", but it's just another Personality Test. The choice was already made by your Personality Type.

### Legal stuff

I release this book under the MIT License. In short, you have all freedoms and zero security. Long version:

MIT License

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### Contact

Milan Hauth, Jägerstraße 10, 83308 Trostberg, Germany
Web: github.com/milahu/alchi
E-Mail: milahu@gmail.com + milahu@protonmail.com
Chat: @milahu:matrix.org

### Last Words

You met me at a very strange time in my life. In a few days, they will start World War 3. 90 Percent of all humans will die.

I hope that the 10 Percent survivors will find my book, and use it, to build a truly better world